There’s a lie that so many Christians have gotten used to that they forget the truth and that’s the lie of what real purity is.
Certainly the Bible does say waiting for marriage is pure, but there’s so much then the physical when it comes to purity.
If purity is only a physical thing, does that mean watching pornography is okay?
According to Habakkuk 1:13, no.
“Your eyes are too pure to approve evil, And You can not look on wickedness with favor Why do You look with favor On those who deal treacherously? Why are You silent when the wicked swallow up Those more righteous than they?”
What we look at can definitely either be pure or impure and the difference is between what’s God honouring and what isn’t. The difference here is porn is lustful and lust is considered adultery and adultery is considered impure by God.
Purity is actually an issue of the heart. You know, the Pharisees obeyed every law of the Old Testament, but was God pleased with them? No, because their heart wasn’t in the right.
1 John 3:3 says,
“And everyone who has this hope fixed on Him purifies himself, just as He is pure.”
To be pure, we see that we have to have a total faith on Jesus because Jesus Himself is as pure as it gets, as pure as God. If we then look to the way Jesus lived, we see that His faith in God was always backed up by our actions and that’s how it should be for us too.
Faith comes first, then comes work.
So you might then be asking, what does all this mean? What am I trying to say?
What I’m trying to say is anyone who watches porn is equal to those having sex before marriage. Anyone who’s engaged in phone sex has committed sexual immorality. Anyone who lets their thoughts dwell on sexual fantasies are just as much in the wrong as everyone else.
True purity is hard to have and I know from personal experience how hard it can be. It’s a daily battle, but I’m so determined to keep fighting impurity not just because of my faith in the most Pure, but because I want to guard and protect J’s purity and his heart and mind as well.
How impure would it be of me to dress skimpily for him when I know his conviction to remain pure until marriage?
We as Christians have focused so much on sex, that we’ve forgotten all the things that lead to sex are just as deadly.
GOD BLESS XX
~ C